Hello, we are Bill and Lauren! We want you to know that we recognize and admire your courage and strength and are grateful you are taking the time to learn more about us.
Our story began in August 2003 while attending the same college. Neither of us was looking for a serious relationship then; however, that quickly changed the night a mutual friend introduced us. We dated for the next three years while finishing college, followed by an additional three years of long-distance as Lauren completed graduate school out of state. Bill was extremely supportive of Lauren furthering her education, even if it meant being hundreds of miles apart. We would spend weekends visiting one another and making the most of our time together with beach days at Lake Michigan, sporting events, and movie nights. Although the distance was difficult, it made us stronger and more confident in our commitment to one another! In 2009, Lauren completed graduate school and returned to Michigan, where we immediately moved in together.
Over the last 13 years, we’ve traveled, bought our first home, became pet parents, and married in the summer of 2015. Raising a child has always been our dream and a constant theme in our life plans. We are excited and hopeful about the idea of welcoming a child into our lives through adoption.
Lauren will always greet you with a genuine smile and a positive attitude. She has a way of making others feel included and noticing when someone needs a little extra attention. She is warm, caring, and compassionate. Working as a School Psychologist has given her a unique outlook on child development and a great perspective on the impact of a healthy home and loving family. An added bonus is that she works school hours and has the summers off, which I know will help create a strong bond and lasting memories as a mother.
“Aunt Lolo” is how Lauren is known by all our friends’ children. She frequently takes them on “adventure days” and spoils them. Lauren is well organized and keeps an ongoing list of new spots to visit or restaurants to try. While she may not be an adventure seeker in terms of outdoor sports, she makes sure we have fun activities to look forward to throughout the year.
Lauren is also a fantastic aunt to our nieces and nephew. Over the holidays, they are all drawn to her and enjoy the one-on-one attention she gives each and every one of them. She enjoys playing board games, so they always look forward to sitting around the kitchen table for hours. I really do enjoy watching Lauren interact with the kids because it seems to come so naturally to her. They always warm up to her quickly, and she immediately gets pulled into whatever they do.
When you first meet Bill, you will immediately notice his easygoing and lighthearted personality. I love how he doesn’t take himself too seriously and is always the first of the group to throw out a funny movie line or lighten the mood. Bill is a successful engineer and takes time to mentor new employees in the office. He has a lot of energy and many hobbies! On the weekends, Bill will wake up early to mountain bike and make it home early enough for us to spend a full day together at Lake Michigan. He is also a fabulous cook and keeps a binder filled with original and family recipes. I imagine him making Sunday morning breakfast a fun tradition as a dad!
Bill is one of the most generous people I have ever met. When I arranged a surprise party for his birthday, he bought a gift for each person who attended! It also warms my heart to see how he volunteers his free time to help our parents as they age and doesn’t ask for anything in return.
We live in a walkout ranch on a quiet street in a family-friendly suburb. We almost always have music playing throughout the house. We love to grill on our porch in the summer months and invite friends and family over. In the winter months, you can find us curled up on the couch with a fire going and a movie playing. Our two dachshunds, Henry and Gus, are always at our sides and are the best cuddlers! Our basement leads out to a big fenced-in yard that will be perfect for a swingset one day.
Our neighborhood is filled with young families and older adults who have raised their families here. A lake, an elementary school, an ice cream shop, playgrounds, and a land preserve are within walking distance. We love to take our dogs on hikes through the land preserve! Each Spring, the city marathon runners come through our neighborhood, and we all gather to cheer them on and share a pancake breakfast at the end of the street. During Christmas, neighbors line the streets with luminaries. We chose this neighborhood because of the high-rated schools and the proximity to many great amenities.
Our families instantly bonded, and our parents and siblings have all become great friends, despite living states apart. Lauren’s parents live one mile from our home, with a pool and playground in their community. We see them weekly for dinner or walks through the neighborhood. Lauren’s brother lives in California, and although he is far away, they have a strong bond and talk weekly.
Bill’s family lives in Pennsylvania, and we see them every 3-4 months but talk on the phone regularly. Bill’s father and stepmother live in the same small town that Bill was raised in, while his mother and her boyfriend have moved to a larger city. Although his parents are divorced, everyone gets along well and can come together for family celebrations. Bill has two older sisters he talks to weekly, as well as two nieces and a nephew. Bill’s younger brother sadly passed away a few years ago. We intend to keep his memory alive and continue to share stories about him with others.
Bill has a first cousin who was adopted at birth, as well as an aunt who was placed for adoption at birth and recently reconnected with her biological family.
Holidays are a special time for our families. Each Thanksgiving, Lauren’s immediate family, gathers at our house. Lauren’s dad used to be the Thanksgiving chef, though Bill has taken on this role within the last few years. We always cook too much food and relax with the football games in the background. We spend Christmas in Pennsylvania visiting with Bill’s large family and having fun doing a grab-bag gift exchange. Bill’s family has many traditions we have brought into our home, including making homemade pierogi and passing them out to friends.
As a child, Bill and his siblings volunteered through their church, attended baseball games, and took family vacations. Lauren and her family attended hockey games, visited museums, and took day trips to Frankenmuth. These are still some of our favorite activities and memories! We are both huge hockey fans and have formed a family-friendly rivalry between Detroit and Pittsburgh. Bill is also an avid mountain biker and has raced throughout the state, while Lauren prefers to watch from the sidelines and cheer him on.
We’ve always hoped for the chance to share these experiences with a child.
Being a parent is something we have always wished for and spent our adult lives preparing for. If we are chosen as adoptive parents, we promise to provide a loving and safe home for your baby. We promise to raise a child with kindness and acceptance and provide a supportive environment. We promise to raise a child with an understanding of where they came from and the loving choices that were made with their best interest at heart.
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