We are Amanda and Kurtis. We want to thank you for taking the time to learn about us. We also want to say that we can’t imagine how incredibly difficult the decision you’re considering must be. We want you to know that we love you and respect you for choosing to make an adoption plan.
We have both always wanted to have children, but we struggled with infertility from the beginning. Ultimately, we were able to get pregnant after about one year, and we had our first son, Falin, in February of 2010. But it wasn’t an easy delivery. Falin was born at 32 weeks, weighing only 3 lbs 6 oz. He was very sick and spent 42 days in the NICU before we were able to bring him home.
After Falin turned one, we decided that we wanted to try for another child. This time it took us four years to get pregnant again. Six months into the pregnancy, Amanda needed to have an emergency C-section. Our second son, Q, was born at 27 weeks and was even smaller than Falin. He weighed only 1lb 9oz. Q was in the NICU for 80 days before the doctors felt he was strong enough to come home.
While we are so happy and grateful for the two children that we had, we still feel that our family is not yet complete. After not having any success conceiving again naturally, we realized that our journey was going to take us down the road to adoption. That’s what has brought us here to you, today!
We live in Utah and love living in a small town. We live in a modest home on a quiet street close to two parks and a walking trail. We recently completed a full remodel on our home and are starting on a full front and backyard update!
We spend a lot of time in the kitchen. Kurtis is an incredible cook while Amanda is our resident baker. She loves showing the boys how to make cookies and her delicious Pumpkin sheet cake! Falin is now getting to a point where he’s starting to learn how to cook! He hasn’t mastered much more than Mac and Cheese, but he is eager to learn how to make good food like dad.
We enjoy raising our children with the outdoors so close to us and we spend much of our time outside and in the mountains. Our sons love spending time in the yard jumping on the trampoline and playing at the parks close to our home. We all love riding bikes and exploring the trail systems near our home. We are all very excited to have another child/ sibling to share our love and our experiences with.
We both have large extended families, many of them live in our town or 45 minutes away. Both of our parents live within 10 minutes of our home. They are very involved grandparents. There isn’t a sports event that doesn’t have at least one grandparent in attendance! They love to show support to our kids and our nieces and nephews.
We also spend much of our time throughout the year helping out on the family ranch. Amanda’s family has had the ranch in their family for three generations. Our sons love lambing season and working on the mountain, trailing sheep and cattle to and from their summer grazing lands. There are many days throughout the year spent doing chores and helping out wherever needed on the ranch.
We recently decided to start a new family tradition. Every other year for Christmas instead of having a bunch of gifts on Christmas morning, we take a family trip somewhere. We discussed it and decided that we wanted to spend money on experiences with our kids rather than more gifts. Our first year doing this we took our boys on a Caribbean cruise. Then, two years later, we spent a week in San Diego, CA. We look forward to sharing this new tradition and spending this special time with another child.
We are so appreciative that you’ve taken the time to read our profile. We hope that through our story you have been able to see just how important family is to both of us. We truly cherish our time and relationships with our kids, and will do the same with any child who joins our family through adoption. We know in our hearts that there is a little baby girl out there somewhere who is meant to complete our family!
We also want you to know how much we love you and respect the difficult decision that you now face. We hope that you can take some comfort knowing that we would love your child like you do and would always do what is best for them. We would provide them with all that they need in this life, and all the love they can imagine!
We wish you the best as you make some really difficult decisions. If you’d like to get to know us better, we’d love to hear from you. -Amanda and Kurtis
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