Hi, we are Trevor and Jessica! We are honored that you are taking the time to read our story and learn more about us as prospective parents.

Like many couples today, we met online, though we were a bit surprised to do so! Given that we didn’t live very close to one another, we should not have appeared on each other’s suggested page, but the Lord had other plans, and we are so glad that He did. Our first date was an all-day affair and we both quickly knew we had found the one. Trevor proposed on one of our weekly date nights and Jessica was completely surprised. We married eight months later, on a warm 80-degree March day in 2017.

We started trying for children right away, but after unsuccessful attempts with medical assistance, we were informed IVF would be our only option. As we prayed for the Lord’s guidance, we felt the door of adoption opening, and we have not looked back since. We are so excited to welcome a sweet child into our home through adoption.

Trevor is the kindest and funniest person I have ever met! I remember after our first date telling my mom that I had never laughed so much in my life. I am so grateful that he has been making me laugh ever since.

During the day, Trevor works in the mortgage industry, helping individuals and families to achieve their homeownership goals. But outside of work, Trevor is the ultimate family man. He loves hanging out with our nieces and friends’ children. He is the fun uncle with all the Jurassic Park dinosaur toys and craft supplies! He is so creative and has built both the “Tangled” and “Frozen” castles for our nieces and a “Winnie the Pooh” house for our friends’ children. I cannot wait to see what he will build for a new little one!

Trevor is going to make a great father. He is so kind, gentle and fun! I look forward to the day I can see him outside playing with a kiddo, teaching them a new sport (hockey is his favorite), or helping them build a fort or their own Disney castle.

It is hard to explain in a couple of small paragraphs the wonder that is my wife and just how amazing I believe she will be as a mother. Jessica is loving, kind and understanding. She is forgiving, slow to be frustrated, has a perfect sense of humor (well, at least she laughs at my jokes) and is always open to new adventures. Her loving nature has made her an excellent aunt to our nieces; the girls cheer with glee when Aunt Jess enters the room.

Jessica is a smart, strong woman who can master anything she puts her mind to. I cannot wait to watch her teach a child how to read music or play the piano, which she excels at. I look forward to hearing the sounds of music and singing echo through the house when she has a duet partner. Jessica will certainly be able to show a little one how to properly organize something. In her career as our church’s executive assistant, Jessica balances many tasks with grace. After a full day of meetings and calls, she makes time for our weeknight dinners and daily conversations. She is always prepared, thoughtful and joyful.

While I do not think it is possible to completely explain all the ways in which Jessica amazes me, what I can say is that she is ready. She is ready to be a mom, and I am confident that she is going to be the most wonderful mother ever.